New Logo New Updates

Years 4 and 5 of Amos’ Anchors (2022 & 2023) have brought about the most significant changes for our organization. We updated our care cards and our logo and revamped our website structure, all in the midst of a move from Indiana to Michigan. We continue to serve our Affiliates in Indiana and have been trying to be present in West Michigan.

In March of 2023, we finally became an official 501 (c) 3 non-profit. It was a lot of work, and a job I could not have completed without the support and advice of other perinatal bereavement non-profits (shout out to Claire of Piper’s Purpose and Jenna of Hannah’s Wish)! The biggest thing this changed for us is our ability to fund-raise and provide our donors with a receipt that allows them to claim their donation on their taxes. We set up our PayPal Giving Fund to provide an electronic means of accepting donations (and our Venmo Charity account, but that charges fees, so we don’t promote that one as much) and completed our first big fundraiser in May of 2023 in honor of Amos’ 5th birthday, raising over $500. Nearly half of that money has already gone to replenishing our stock of Amos’ Anchors cards, which continue to be shipped out to our affiliate hospitals and organizations monthly and as requested. (Learn more here about becoming an Amos’ Anchors Affiliate. Interested in donating? You can do so here. Thank you!)

This summer, I removed and added an additional 45 resources to the website; this is in addition to the Michigan tab and resources added in 2022. Organizations continue to change, nonprofits dissolve, and support groups come and go, but you can be sure that anytime I receive an email from the Bereavement Coordinator on staff at any of our Affiliate Hospitals, I get the information listing updated that same day.

This fall, Amos’ Anchors became the title sponsor of the Baby Steps 5K Run/Walk and memorial event in Kalamazoo, Michigan. I joined as a founding member of The Committee for Better Perinatal Bereavement Care in West Michigan, which is working to put on the Baby Steps 5K event. When I moved to Michigan, I was so disappointed to find that Kalamazoo did not have a memorial walk in October nor a Christmas memorial. We had grown used to having these events as part of our family’s annual traditions for honoring our babies. That’s why I was so excited to join the Committee and help to bring Kalamazoo their first perinatal bereavement memorial walk event! Due to scheduling conflicts, I won’t be able to present at the Indianapolis Walk to Remember this year because I will be present at the Baby Steps walk instead (in future, we plan to choose different dates so I can be present at both). I will however be a keynote speaker again that evening at Riley Maternity Tower’s Light the Night event, and if you attend the Indianapolis Walk to Remember, listen for my babies’ names during the reading. We still registered and requested a program to be mailed to us, and we still ordered a memorial sign to be placed along the walking path.

This winter, Amos’ Anchors will embark on a new adventure as part of our efforts to provide better perinatal bereavement care in West Michigan; we will host a holiday luminary memorial and are in the process of developing our first in-person support group. We continue to host our Over the Rainbow virtual support group once a month via Hannah’s Wish for those who are parenting a living child after loss or pregnant after a loss. We’ve seen this group grow and change a lot this past year, and we hope to continue to serve the PAL community in this way.

Thank you for your support of Amos’ Anchors and please continue to spread the word about the resources available here. We are honored to be considered “the safe Google” for grieving parents after perinatal loss and will continue to do our best to meet the needs of our community.

With the deepest condolences and biggest hug,

~Kristen

(Amos’ Mom)

Update 2021

If you took all the grief support resources that exist for families who have suffered from miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss and turned them each into a gallon of water, they’d maybe fill a swimming pool. That’s not much when you consider the depth and breadth of this particular kind of grief and who if affects all over the world (nearly everyone in some capacity), but while collecting resources over the past year, I’ve managed to come across far more than I ever expected to find. On top of that, there are countless Instagram accounts and Facebook pages dedicated to the babies whom grieving families love and have lost, myriads of accounts dedicated to the journeys of those struggling to start or complete their families, and an ocean of grief in which they all exist.

Once I began this work, people in my community began to hand off resources to me through messages, phone calls, tags, link shares, and texts. Slowly but surely, over the past two years, I’ve accumulated well over 50 new resources to share here on Amos’ Anchors. Thank you to all who have supported me on this journey and who have passed on information to me. I promise your recommendation or request to be added to the site has not gone ignored. ❤

It is those carefully collected resources that I am currently working on adding to the website, and it feels like a mammoth of a task. The enormity of the task (paired with the overwhelm of making it through our pregnancy with Juniper and living through the past year during the pandemic) left me paralyzed over the past few months in being able to just get started, but as time has marched on, the list has continued to grow and grow, making the task feel heavier and heavier. All of a sudden, it’s nearly spring again, and here I am slowly marching towards the end of April, when we discovered Amos no longer had a heartbeat.

Amos’ birthday is May 4th. He would have been 3 this year.

My new goal is to add a little bit each week to the site leading up to his birthday, so that by the time May rolls around, most of the new resources have been added and organized. This site is, after all, his living legacy, and I have delivered more cards to more places now than ever before. I want this resource to reach those who need it most, and when they find it, I want them to be able to find the resources they need.

So far, I’ve been able to find a lot of new books to recommend, memorial gift shops to list, and other non-profits who are doing the support work virtually through support groups online. The only resource I’ve yet to find is one who will help pay off medical bills after a loss, so if you know of any, please let me know.

Thank you to those who continue to share our posts on social media or in messages to friends who have suffered a loss. By sharing AmosAnchors.org and the posts I’ve made about it on @MommySincerest and @AmosAnchors on Instagram and Facebook, you help get this resource in front of someone who may need it most.

Here’s to a broader scope of resources soon on the site and to the growth of this resource as we continue to expand our reach beyond Indianapolis into neighboring states and beyond.

Sincerely,

Kristen

Amos’ Anchors is Born

One year after the death and birth of my son Amos, I’ve begun on the journey to create a resource for Indiana moms struggling with infertility and suffering the grief of pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or infant loss. My goal is to collect and organize as many helpful resources as possible in one organized place. Grief is hard enough without having to sift through endless amounts of information. I wanted to take that hardship out of the process.

If you have any resources you’d like to recommend that we list, please email them to me at amosanchors@gmail.com.

As I am a work-from-home mom caring daily for two young children, resources will be added as time allows each week. I am hoping to have the site fully functioning and ready to launch within two months.

Your support and encouragement and help with finding resources is appreciated along the way!

Thank you!